planning things in your head, hoping one day it happens i can plan and plan and plan, but if i’m not putting it to action, what good is planning? it’s just another way of having a checklist that isn’t getting any attention so things build up and never get completed. i had planned to have a steady job right now, not relying on my parents for funding. hasn’t happened. i had hoped to be dating or married by now, maybe with kids, and a sweet husband. none of it has happened. i planned to be living on my own. that’s not the case. i planned on being more independent. it never feels like that. i planned on traveling to different countries next year, but need a job now. in time. i had to sit back and pray about this. praying is still in progress, i am getting out of my frustrated, why me, stupid attitude. i’ve got to change those moments for myself. if a door shuts, it makes the opportunity for me to go to an open door that maybe i wouldn’t have noticed before. the pathwa...